
The other day, my oldest son randomly asked me, “Mom, what do you think of when I say L.A.?”
I quickly replied, “Warm, sunny beaches, palm trees, Dodgers (Dodger BLUE!)… why?”
I thought maybe it was a homework assignment. Turns out it wasn’t. He was ‘just curious’. So I asked him the same… his reply?
“Graffiti, gangs, violence.”
Such a negative viewpoint. I was curious as to why he thought that and he said he didn’t know… so it sparked a discussion about perception and viewpoints. As humans, we tend to perceive things as they are shown to us. We base our ideas of what we like and don’t like around the ideas that our family and friends have… or what we view on tv or social networks; and choose our preferences likewise. I didn’t realize that my son thought so negatively about a city that is just a short drive away… and one that I love to visit often!
I felt intrigued and decided to ask my family the same question…
My dad? “Traffic, SMOG, traffic, rude drivers.” (Coming from the man who travels to L.A. almost weekly for doctor visits and checkups…)
My sis? “Shopping, smog, traffic, food!” (Coming from the girl who works in fashion and used to drive to L.A. and all over California for work…)
Television and the media tend to paint L.A. as a negative place. Hence, my son’s negative view of the city. Ask anyone… what do you envision of East L.A.? I admit, I thought the same as my son. Ghetto, gangs, graffiti… However, ask anyone that LIVES there or grew up there… and their perception is way different. Someone recently took me to his old neighborhood, right in the middle of East L.A…. and much to my surprise, it was NOTHING like the movies and tv portray it. It was peaceful, serene. Refreshing. Life is simpler than we think sometimes. We just need to take a moment to relax, breathe… and open your mind. :)
Take some time today to relax and enjoy the simple things in life… I’m blessed… and so are you!
Here are some recent images from our latest visit to the city of Los Angeles, California…
(CLICK ON EACH THUMBNAIL TO VIEW LARGER…)
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Old cemetery
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The famous tree from "Blood In, Blood Out"
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A house on a random street
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Sunset over East L.A.
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Sunset over East L.A.
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Sunset over East L.A.
Thanks for taking the time to visit today…
~Marsha
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