Archive for January, 2009

A deep mommy *sigh*

January 21, 2009

Being a mommy is the most satisfying job in the world.  Most of the time.  lol!  

I know that there are those definite moments of chaos…

You know, like when you are trying to cook dinner, help 3 kids with homework, wrestle a 2 year old and answer the phone all at the same time.  

Or when you are rushing out the door with your arms full of the typical daily outing necessities, toting along 4 kids, half dragging/half pushing them out the door when you realize that there is a horrible stench coming out of your 2 year old’s diaper area when you know you *just* changed him… and you are already running late… 

The times when you are driving along and your 5 year old (who sits in the middle) is antagonizing his older sister and baby brother at the same time… knowing that you can’t do a *thing* about it without risking a major car accident.

Or how about the times when your 2 year old is joyfully squealing in delight as he is flinging the *just popped* bag of popcorn all over your *just vacuumed* carpet… or car… or Target store…

Oye.  *laying down head in defeat*

BUT… then there are those moments when you realize that you wouldn’t trade being a mommy for anything in the world…

Like when your 5 year old sneaks up on you, taps you on the back and says, “Mommy, did I tell you that I love you today?” and it happens to be the one thing you needed to hear the most at that very moment…

Or when your daughter squeezes you and tells you that she loves you 5.  (Because when she was 5, 5 was the biggest number you could love someone…)

At night, during “nighty-night” time, when your 2 year old snuggles up as tight as he can, lovingly and happily exclaiming “ansa!” as he assumes his nightly position… (”ansa” being his word for “pansa” which means stomach in spanish… and just so happens to be his security blanket…)  

The times your oldest sits with you and talks about his life and you are amazed that this “little boy” is just a few months shy of being a teenager… and you realize that your influence made him what he is today.  Sensitive, caring, humble…  

I feel so privileged, so incredibly blessed, that God would trust ME to be the mommy of these 4 precious children.  

I took my oldest out on a shoot the other night and struggled with feelings of nostalgia (wondering how and when my “little boy” grew up) and pride as I watched him quietly… Happy to see him becoming the confident young man that he is.  Proud that he loves God and knows that his potential is endless with God. 

*sigh*

Here are a couple of the images from our mommy/son time…. 

Take some time to stop and tell your children how much they mean to you. It means the world to them… Just like it means a lot when someone goes out of their way to let you know you are special. :) Cherish these moments. They are fleeting… :)

If you’ve made it this far, thank you. I wish you a wonderful day filled to the brim with blessings. :)
~Marsha

Cynthia: Good for you for recognizing those sweet invaluable moments! Great post! And handsome son!

Michelle Pearson: Thank you for posting this, off to sleep with K tonight, I miss her so much.. Love ya :)

AmyJo: MARSHA - your work is amazing! I have to do my sister's wedding in August...the first *real* thing I have ever had to do - by real, i mean pressure - everything up to this point has been casual. ANYHOW, I'm looking at YOU for inspiration and so thanksful you are FULL OF IT!! Thank you for being a blessing to me and for sharing so many things that you aren't even aware of - of yourself, your family and your Lord :) You are such a blessing - and wowzas!! Those kids have grown into beautiful young people (especially the oldest ones, where does time go??)

It’s a beautiful morning!

January 16, 2009

Waking up to sunshine has been incredible these last few days! The weather has been so horribly gloomy lately that one begins wondering if there will ever be sun again! Thank God that spring is getting closer and closer… (I’m so spoiled with Cali weather that I don’t know what I would do in below 0 temps! eek! However, ask me again in June, July and August if I enjoy BAKERSFIELD weather! lol! ;P)

With the sun shining and moods soaring in excitement, I headed out for a shoot with a toddler who was sure to be a gem!  I had the extreme pleasure of spending time with little Miss K yesterday. She is definitely one to watch out for! With a mind all her own, she commands attention!  

I love capturing this age… eyes wide with wonder and curiosity, you can almost see the wheels in their brain turning furiously as they soak it all in. Their obliviousness to the going-ons around them as they explore their little world is delightful! 

Mom and dad were a little apprehensive with her demeanor and apologized for her behavior. Why? She was perfectly FINE! lol! One thing that I like to remind my clients of is that we are there to enjoy the process! No need to stress over “the perfect shot”. What I see in my head and my view of “the perfect shot” almost ALWAYS differs from onlookers. :) Trust me. :)

With that, I hope that mom and dad love these as much as I do! I look forward to working with you again! ENJOY!

OH WHAT! LOL! I had to share this one… little miss getting “gangsta” on me! ;)

Thanks so much for stopping by today! Feel free to leave a comment below… for those that take the time to leave them, thanks so much! :)

Have a wonderful and BLESSED weekend!

Mandy Arambulo: Heart melting photos! What an adorable thing. Introduced to your Blog just recently from Mari, keep up the great work =)

Cynthia: So sweet and adorable :) Great pics Marsha!

All Aboard!

January 10, 2009

Chug, chug, chug.  Puff, puff, puff.  Ding-dong, ding-dong.  The little train rumbled over the tracks.  She was a happy little train for she had such a jolly load to carry.  Her cars were filled full of good things for boys and girls.” - The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper

The sweet, soft, rhythmic breathing of a resting child.

The intense feeling of love and adoration that pulses through your body as you gaze peacefully on their innocence.

The overwhelming “awwwwwwwww” factor that cannot be contained by anyone happening upon the scene.

This was the situation last night.

As I was diligently working on a project, I realized that I hadn’t heard a peep out of my 2 year old for a while.  He’s been obsessed with trains lately and I knew he was sitting on the couch reading “The Little Engine That Could”.  I went to check on him and this is what I came upon… 

Who can resist such a sweet moment?  My sister happened to come over as I was documenting this image and she was overcome with the “awwww factor” as well… lol!

Here’s another recent photo that Jose captured the other night after our baby’s bath.  I love this one because his true character shines through!  :)

I’m sad they can’t stay this age forever… So sweet and innocent! I’m enjoying every last juicy baby moment and I feel so blessed that I am able to at least document the baby years with my camera…

Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by today… hope you are having a wonderful and blessed weekend! :)
~Marsha

Cynthia: beautiful moments-so sweet!

Cary: Great post! Our youngest just turned two this weekend and I can totally relate to everything you said!!! Wonderful shots Marsha! Take care!!!